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Dating To Find a Husband: Rule # 1

Ask yourself: Am I dating to have fun or am I dating to find a husband? If you said the latter, keep reading.

When you date to find a husband you act differently. You 1) go into the date with a goal 2) have fun, but are always aware of what the man is saying and what he is doing (and watching if the two are consistent) and 3) focusing on forming a bond, rather than being sexual.

In this first article, we’ll cover Rule # 1 of Dating To Find a Husband: Wait to get physical.

1. Your personality “hooks” the guy – NOT your body!
I know you’ve heard this many times, but it’s true. The reason to wait is to see if he is a good match for you. We all know that figuring out chemistry only takes a few seconds, but getting to know someone’s personality - figuring out who he really is takes a little bit longer. If you’re looking to start a serious relationship, you want it to be based, first and foremost, on love—not just sex. Who you are as a person is enough to get him and keep him interested!

2. Smart women don’t become vulnerable before it’s time.
Worry, anxiety, and insecurity are all results of hooking up with a man too early in the game. When you just meet a man – no matter how much you bond with him on the date and no matter how often you talk to him or see him – you have to remember that he is still basically a stranger. When you are in the first few months of dating you need to focus on what this man is all about and if he’d be a good match for you. Most women are sensitive about having their feelings hurt. If you’re aware of this from the start, you can be smart about your actions and protect yourself. If you know you get vulnerable after you have become physical with a man - then wait. Make sure he’s a good person and wouldn’t do anything to intentionally hurt you. It takes time to build trust - don’t put your feelings at the mercy of someone who you really don’t know all that well.

3. Getting physical puts us on Cloud 9
Touch is magic—it feels so good that it clouds our vision. We tend to fool, ourselves into thinking that if the touch is right, he can do no wrong. You are a smart woman, and don’t let yourself be fooled. In reality, when we only know a man for a few months we still really don’t know whether he is really good for us. This takes time. The moment you hook up with a man, you give away your ability to see him for who he is truly is. Better to wait, get to know him, decide that you really do like the person he is – and then hook up. When you really know a man, sex is far more powerful. When this happens a real relationship with lasting potential occurs.

4. He’s not the prize, you are!
Being a lady, you are the prize. You are the princess and he’s trying out for the part of being your prince. For whatever reason, our society tends to teach us the opposite. We are strong, we are beautiful, we are caring, and sensitive and amazing – we have all the power in the world and men want and need us in their lives. We are the prize. We are the goal to be reached. Believe it, it’s true.

Ladies, if you are truly dating to find a husband then it pays to follow this rule. If you see yourself following the same losing patterns over and over, it just makes sense to try a more positive approach. There’s an old wisdom that tells us, only a fool does the same thing over and over and expects a different result. So try waiting, it won’t be easy, but it’s worth it – and it may be the one thing that will get you what you want: a lasting, loving relationship that’s built on all the right reasons!

Wishing you the best in love,

Free Love Spell to Get What You Want

All you need are the three main magic needs, needs, feelings and knowledge. You understand that Bands are just what you need. Say this; I give because I am generous. Love is with me because I ask. What I deserve is what I get. Deserve what I need what I need to get what you need it so, and so it is.

I Simply Magic Free Love Spell

Get a blank piece of paper. Write whatever you want to happen in this paper in big letters. Write the paper in a bowl or pot, while visualizing what you want to happen. Take the ashes outside / throwing up in the air. If there is no wind, just toss in the air and let the ashes fall to the ground. Then you say: so mote it is.

Free Love Spell Wish Ritual

A large bowl with a wooden spoon to a colander or sieve, many of the following herbs can be found here: cinnamon, basil, clover, ginger, marjoram, tea, catnip, jasmine, ginseng, lavender, pine, sage, cloves. This is inherently a simple spell, but you can make it an all-out ritual. Best if done when the moon is waxing unless you want to get rid of a problem. Put all ingredients in bowl. Move and paint them with a spoon. Continue to grind and blend until everything is mixed into a raw material - no large pieces. It must be gritty and almost powder-like. Dump the ingredients in colander or sieve and gently shake it back and forth for a second bowl. The finest powder obtained through the filter, but large pieces are not. What you need, when you finish at least a little like the herbal powder.

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Make sure to go to a good day to do the magic. Find a good cleaning and take your meals you want a bag. Get a handful and say a song - just write them, so you can tell the specific need of you. Make sure you are very clear about what you want, and if you want to get it. Throw your powder into the air and let them take away you want to come true!